Before You End Your Life

Are you at the lowest of your life right now?

Does everything seems to falling in front of you?

Have you lost faith in yourself?

Do you feel like taking your own life & end everything ?

If yes, keep reading till the end .

Hello everyone!

First of all, the reason why am I writing this.

If you have read my post How To Move On From Past then you must be knowing about a girl who reached out to me to seek help for moving on from her abusive relationship.

So few weeks back she was feeling really down & she started blaming herself for everything that happened to her. She was feeling miserable that day & then she said

“I don’t wanna live anymore. I’m tired of dealing with all this every single day while he(her ex) is living happy life“.

I know there are lot more people who are dealing with similar emotions & thinking about taking their life.

It’s really scary for me to just even imagine this.

This post is dedicated to all of those who are dealing with lot of pain & negativity and having suicidal thoughts.

So Listen up !

Imagine You Took Your Life

Stop thinking about taking your life & imagine you already did it.

You’re lying on floor with slitted wrist in a pool of red blood all over floor

Or hanging on a rope with numb eyes.

Then your mother comes to check if why you haven’t woke up yet & she finds you dead in your room.

She can’t believe & tries to wake you up. She loses her voice because of immense shock & pain. She isn’t even able to cry.

Then your father & siblings arrives. They look at you lying in your mother’s arms dead. And burst into tears.

Your siblings who always looked up to you cannot even understand what are they seeing.

What’s Next?

It’s been a week you died. Everyone still in shock & pain. Everybody in your society talking about you & spreading rumors about your death.

Your family?

Well , they haven’t eaten since you are gone. They haven’t slept since you are gone.

Your parents wondering why did you do this. They are blaming themselves for not knowing what you were dealing with.

They are regretting not able to save their own child. All they can feel is guilt & regret.

Your siblings regretting all the silly fights they had with you. Feeling guilty for not knowing what you were going through.

Your best friend who was always there for you has locked himself in his room & crying his heart out. Regretting for not having that funny conversation with you which might have saved you.

Months passed but the feeling of guilt & regret didn’t.

How does it feel to just imagine?

Let’s get it straight

Okay, I understand you had a horrible past. Something happened which you never imagined & it has completely destroyed you. And now you can’t go back & change that , right?

So yeah, someone did wrong to you. They gave you a lot of pain. Maybe too much of it. But all you gave them was pure love.

And now you’re thinking about ending your life because of them?

What about the people who values you the most? Who’s world revolves around you? Who always kept doing things just to make you happy?

Yes , I’m talking about your family.

How can you forget them?

How can you think you don’t have someone who loves you?

Who was there for you at your lowest? Who fulfilled all your wishes no matter how silly they were? Who kept working overnight to make your future safe? Who didn’t sleep when you were sick?

Yes again it’s your family.

You Are Loved

You are loved. No matter how many people have left you who you thought will stay by your side , your family always did.

They never asked for anything in return from you. They didn’t leave you when you shouted at them or when you didn’t pick their call. They never left you alone.

No matter how angry they were with you, at the end of day they came back to you. No, they never replaced you.

Yes , you are loved. Loved unconditionally.

Stop Looking For Love

You already have it. Don’t obsess over that character in your favourite movie or book to come into your life. It’s a fiction, my dear.

Come back to reality & embrace the real unconditional love that you already have in your life.

Life is much more than looking for love.

Current Situation

Close to 800 000 people die due to suicide every year, which is one person every 40 seconds.

Recently my best friend told me about her cousin who ended his life for betrayal in a relationship. And how hard it was for her whole family to get over it. Especially his mom who took therapy for 1 whole year just to get over suicide of her son.

If you’re thinking about taking your own life, stop for while & think about your family.

Suicide is never a solution for any problem. Instead it will create more problems.

Suicide doesn’t take away the pain, it gives it to someone else.

I want each one of you to share this post as much you can, you’ll end up saving precious lives.

Thank you for reading !


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  1. I’m looking up for it but I’m unable to trace the mistake. I’ll fix it up soon. By the way, I’m a girl πŸ‘§ and this post deserved to be shared brother.☺ Keep writing and inspiring πŸ‘

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  2. I’ve never thought of committing suicide! It seems funny and foolish to me! And I am confident about me that I can deal with my struggles and pains as I always do.
    A very good post. People should actually start looking deeper into matters like this. Is the boy or the girl the only person you’ve got?? No!! So live life. Y

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  3. There are days when i feel like im all alone by myself and i don’t have anyone to talk to but i just read what you said and it was very motivating to me so thank you for that

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  4. Beautifuly written. We need to realise, which ever ’emotional scar’ it is which drives our negative behaviour is merely a figment. It no longer exists. We punish ourselves with “past” thought. The answer is LOVE……….LOVE Yourself, forgive Yourself……Focus on the future….Your future……Our future. Love awakens the most elevated You. Keep shining Your beautiful bright light on humanity

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  5. Thank you so much dear β€οΈβ€οΈπŸ˜‡
    If I can save even one life from writing this then that’s enough for me πŸ˜‡
    Yes , I’ll keep writing more of this & spread awareness.

    Have a great day β˜€οΈ

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  6. Thank you so much for this post! It’s not easy living with a mental illness and tormented by thoughts of suicide. Writing like this, makes the world aware ,and for some, that they are not alone. Continue to write about such topics, and get awareness out there. ✌🏻 keep up the great posts!

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  7. This was a really nice read, especially the part where you wrote about the aftermath of suicide. Very often we tend to think that our problems are what matter most. As long as there’s absence of forgiveness & acceptance, both by the victim and the ones that surround them, there’s little hope. But yes, this is a grave step that changes lives of families altogether. Indeed, this is a deranged world we live in. It takes immense courage to hold our ground.

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  8. So true Nameera !
    It gets really hard to hold on to hope & stay strong.
    But one must not forget about the unconditional love & support got from family .

    Thank you for this reading & sharing your opinion πŸ˜‡β€οΈ

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  9. Unfortunately, committing suicide is not at all funny or silly. It is quite possibly the worst thing you can think of except to be murdered. I live in Southern California, and it is all too common out in this area. Recently a girl 13 years young just mere blocks away hung herself because she was repeatedly bullied in school about her braces on her teeth. It is so sad that she could not understand that in a couple of years, she would become a beauty because of having those braces. Her parents are still suffering after months since the incident. And this is not at all an isolated case. I am very much an advocate for young people who are thinking of committing suicide. Never take it lightly. If anyone posts anything that sounds as though they are thinking of committing suicide, first post to them to tell them kindly to try to get help and then do what you can to contact the suicide prevention people. If you are not sure how to reach them in your area, do call 211 and ask for the number and they will give you a contact number.

    Life is sacred, and each and every one of us are here because we are meant to be. And every one of us, no matter how it may seem, is important to the survival of this earth. We never understand what a person who commits suicide might have accomplished on this planet. I have had several friends who have killed themselves, and each of them were accomplished and intelligent people, but it was not enough.

    I would like all of you who believe that suicide is a tragedy to go to the blog, A Million Thoughts and a Heart.wordpress.com, and read this young man’s posts. I believe that he is quite serious and I have been extremely concerned, trying to help prevent him from acting on his thoughts. We all feel loneliness, rejection, possibly extreme mourning, or things like PTSD at some time in our lives. And if we can each reach out and at least do whatever we can to find out who the person is wanting to do this and where they might be, then contact the suicide prevention people and let them know, it is critical.

    I liked what you wrote about how the people who are lost in thinking of suicide don’t realize what it is going to do to others who love and care about them. Thank you very kindly and I appreciate this excellent post.

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  10. Hey Anne !
    Thank you for this lovely comment.

    True, suicide isn’t funny or silly.
    And sharing & seeking help from someone close is really important for someone who’s having suicidal thoughts.

    If you don’t share what you’re going through , then you’re worsening it for you. So it’s really important to talk it out .

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts & really glad to know you’re trying to help someone to come out of this situation.

    My best wishes for you
    ❀️

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